our small, stagnant-aired van begins to
make its way out of the grey hue of the city. burning trash, opaque
streams of water, and trailing exhaust from thousands of well-worn
cars and buses – addis ababa feels to me a suffocating weight today.
as
we circle one roundabout after another, our path seems to be leading
toward somewhere fresher, perhaps somewhere brighter. oh, it’s not
that addis has no appeal. in fact, by this, our third full day here,
we’re actually quite smitten with the friendship, fellowship, and
love that oozes from the city and her people.
but the grey.
our translator, fekadu (who lightheartedly told us that he chose for
himself the american nickname kyle because it means “handsome”)
engages us with stories about the people and places we’re passing.
we stop mid-road at times to let the ever-present flow of goats,
bulls, and wandering children pass, and kyle uses these times to tell
us who he used to be and who he’s been able to become.
handsome
fekadu himself used to be a child under the care of compassion
international’s program, sponsored by a family in australia. he
tells us of the joy of being supported and loved by a family a
continent away, and he humbly shares about the
opportunities he was given wholly by the faithful generosity of
intimate strangers who wanted more for him.
the beginning of his story isn’t that
new for us. we’ve seen the diligent work of compassion and its
sponsors time and time again. we’ve marveled at the glimmer in a
child’s eyes as she proudly clings to her sponsor family’s photos
and letters, and we’ve listened tearfully to another as he thanks
his world-away family for food, for books, for clothes. but the
farther we climb into the mountains of that village land, the more
we wind through the story of a life that was radically impacted by
the work of compassion.
when fekadu aged-out of the regular
sponsorship program, he was given opportunities far beyond what most
young men and women of his country ever know when he was sponsored by
an american family in the leadership development program of
compassion. he was guided, shepherded, taught, and molded. he made
the most of the extreme rarity of university training, becoming a
veterinarian several years ago. i sit against a dirty window and marvel
at how the immaculate landscape seems to turn greener and fresher
with each new detail of our guide's life story.
as he completes his
wonderful tale, i ask about a compound that’s perched oddly in the
middle of the countryside and fekadu explains its utilization as a
greenhouse, a center of floral exports from the amazing land we’re
passing through. but i realize there's one thing missing out here. for all
its bustle, grime, and grey, the city does have something of great
value that this outlying beauty doesn’t – accessible water.
suddenly, i become shockingly aware of the scores of girls and women
we’re passing on our long drive who are hunched over with bodies decades beyond their
years - bodies gnarled and bent by a life of carrying life-giving
drink from here to there. there to here.
where do they get it? i ask.
fekadu answers, the water? they get
it from the greenhouse.
i stare at his face, perhaps waiting
for him to correct a mistake. you mean, from that greenhouse?
yes, that’s the one. it’s miles away from us by now, and it’s
miles away from them always. as the exhausting weight of these young
and old lives alike begins to settle into my western heart, we arrive
at our long-awaited destination. our driver gingerly turns the van
off of the poorly constructed road onto a path that could be labeled
as a rocky trail at best. the grey concrete of the city’s
construction has long since given way to the tan straw of the
countryside’s huts, and i watch with a mix of excited wonder and
stabbing heartache as children much smaller than my own run in and
out of see-through, six-foot square houses.
we make a hard-right
turn onto another dry, bumpy path and shortly stop at the doors of
compassion international’s sadamo genet child survival program. the program director for the CSP meets
us as we climb out onto the hard soil, thanking us profusely for
visiting in a thickly accented mix of english and the village’s
local amharic dialect. i try anxiously to soak up everything around
me - the big metal gate, the makeshift guard station, the pattern of
the stones under my feet, and the friendly, ongoing battle between
ethiopia’s hot sun and its cool mountain breeze. but fast as my
brain tries to memorize, there’s no way to fully grasp what i
witness next.
the director ushers us through the gate
and waves his arm toward the right to reveal a living wall of dark
and beautiful mothers, children, and babies. colors everywhere!
and then i see it – they’re each dressed in their brightest and
finest clothing, but the vibrancy of their ethiopian threads is
surpassed only by the limitless colors of the roses they each hold in
their hands. i have so much, they have so little. i came to serve
them, but they are ministering to me. the beauty of that
magnificent moment overwhelms me and i kneel to the ground in flowing
tears as child after mother after child offers me a welcoming gift.
looking up from the dozens of roses i now hold, i see frightened and
anxious faces on several of the littlest around me. the program
director explains with an awkward giggle, we’ve only ever had
one other visitor here before, so for most of them, you’re the
first light person they’ve ever seen. we all laugh and exchange gentle hugs –
and for the rest of the day the only colors that seem to matter are
on the roses i hold in my hands.
they're proud to show us their
program. medical care, childcare training, fellowship, and most importantly, christ’s
love – they learn about it every week. each day holds its own
agenda, and we walk through the wooden rooms of the program’s few
small structures hearing about how every component of the CSP is
designed to give these women and their children needed basics,
training, and education. finally we find ourselves in the resource
room – a room lit only by the sun through the small windows and
door – and we sit toward the front as mother after mother carries
her little ones with her to the front to talk not about the global
purposes of compassion international but to share about the real and
intimately personal impact that the sadamo genet child survival
program has had for her and her children.
the first woman to come forward is a
soft-spoken mother of several small children. she shares about how,
since joining the CSP, she has learned how to properly care
for her children and has received the needed clothes and blankets to
help keep them warm and dry.
for the next mother, the fellowship of
other moms and believers has been vital to her as she’s welcomed
her first child into the world. she’s been taught how to sew and is
now making and selling clothes to provide an income for her family.
but it was the next woman’s
unexpected words that broke me.
when i was eight months pregnant
with my daughter, i knew i was going to have to give her away after
birth. there was no way to pay for her to eat, to provide what she
needed. your giving let me keep my baby.
i’ve long since known the drastic
quality of life improvement that is birthed out of the programs of
compassion’s child survival programs. i had even begun to
understand the true difference in life and death that this ministry
can make. but until that moment, i had never been so poignantly
struck by the knowledge that through the work of compassion and its
sponsors, mothers are freed from the unimaginable decision of
choosing which of their children’s mouths to feed.
which of their children to keep.
several other women share about their children and their lives. some make me laugh - others make me cry. but one common thread weaves through the tapestry of each of their stories: compassion international's child survival program offers them hope, joy, and a future.
want to help change a life?
save a life? these women and children are real people with real needs. i've hugged their necks, kissed their cheeks, and bonded my heart to theirs. i wholeheartedly urge you to please join with me in
sponsoring the families of sadamo genet. for only $20 per month,
we can radically impact lives.
come back next time for coffee, the breaking of bread, and photography lessons (ethiopian style). you won't want to miss it!!
